harllee
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I am 69 and healthy. DH is 69 and has an autoimmune disease that he has had most of his life, well controlled by medication but his doctor tells him that the disease and medication substantially increases his risk for Covid-19. Looking at all the numbers and some of the various calculators I figure that if I get the virus my chance of dying is about 5%. DH's chance of dying is about 10%. What about our chance of getting a long term disability if we get the virus? I can't find any info to calculate that number--maybe estimate my chance of dying at 5% and my chance of long term disability at 10%? For DH--his chance of dying at 10% and his chance of long term disability at 20%?
And there is my 90 year old mother. In good shape for her age, mind excellent, still drives. She has asthma, high blood pressure controlled by medication and some heart irregularities. So I figure if she gets Covid, maybe she has a 25% chance of dying, and another 25% chance of permanent damage.
All this is very awful to me. Some people would say we are all "expendable" (especially my mother) so things can get back to normal. We are all staying home and taking all precautions but we do have to go pick up groceries, go to the doctor and dentist, pharmacy etc. What else can we do? I am just hoping and praying we can stay safe until there is a good treatment and/or vaccine. If we have to get the virus I want us to be one of the last to get it rather than one of the first.
And there is my 90 year old mother. In good shape for her age, mind excellent, still drives. She has asthma, high blood pressure controlled by medication and some heart irregularities. So I figure if she gets Covid, maybe she has a 25% chance of dying, and another 25% chance of permanent damage.
All this is very awful to me. Some people would say we are all "expendable" (especially my mother) so things can get back to normal. We are all staying home and taking all precautions but we do have to go pick up groceries, go to the doctor and dentist, pharmacy etc. What else can we do? I am just hoping and praying we can stay safe until there is a good treatment and/or vaccine. If we have to get the virus I want us to be one of the last to get it rather than one of the first.