Since there have been 'women specific' threads I figured why not? I'm only kidding...the ladies are always welcome to chime in here.
So, after a 10yr stint as a married man I was divorced in my mid 30s. Then another failed 6yr long relationship after that I'm starting to feel tired and wondering if there's something majorly wrong with me (more on that later if anyone wants to know). Some days I'm not sure I want to try again, I don't feel like I have the energy to give 'chase' again, it can be draining (mentally I mean- not financially). However, well there's the whole companionship of a woman I sorely miss, my partner in crime, someone to have an emotional connection with and of course the intimacy part. I'm wondering if this will slowly subside as I get older or as I get used to being single again (I'm 42 now). Even if it does...then I start to wonder how it would be boring and lonely to live out potentially the most fun/best years of my life by myself.
So the question to those who may have taken that path is how's the water?
As I write this I'm already thinking 'I have got to find the one!...somehow'. She's just not on Match.com or POF etc. Not the one for me anyway.
So, after a 10yr stint as a married man I was divorced in my mid 30s. Then another failed 6yr long relationship after that I'm starting to feel tired and wondering if there's something majorly wrong with me (more on that later if anyone wants to know). Some days I'm not sure I want to try again, I don't feel like I have the energy to give 'chase' again, it can be draining (mentally I mean- not financially). However, well there's the whole companionship of a woman I sorely miss, my partner in crime, someone to have an emotional connection with and of course the intimacy part. I'm wondering if this will slowly subside as I get older or as I get used to being single again (I'm 42 now). Even if it does...then I start to wonder how it would be boring and lonely to live out potentially the most fun/best years of my life by myself.
So the question to those who may have taken that path is how's the water?
As I write this I'm already thinking 'I have got to find the one!...somehow'. She's just not on Match.com or POF etc. Not the one for me anyway.