Chuckanut
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2. Dating as a chump, most of us fall in this category, initially anyway. We try to do things from the perspective of what worked when we were younger. Or how we think. We're the ultimate nice-guy. Gets pushed around, women don't give you the time of day. You then try to buy their attention through expensive dates, clothing, cars, showing your financial prowess etc only to realize it rarely works. You then listen to a bunch of pickup artists and acquire game and have mild to vague results.
3. Dating as a man who really understands what works and why. This is not the simplest and yet the hardest to be because you have to learn to separate your emotions from your actions and look at things objectively. Most of us men are not designed this way, we're simple beings but we're dealing with the most complicated beings so the change has to happen in our thinking.
https://www.amazon.com/No-More-Mr-Nice-Guy/dp/0762415339
the "Nice Guy Syndrome" trying too hard to please others while neglecting one's own needs
Great book to help a man get from #2 to #3 above.