Calico
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
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Saying "No", full stop, is a great idea in principle, but obviously it has some drawbacks. I wish we lived in a world where "No" ended the conversation, but in the actual world it's almost always followed by something like "Oh... are you busy that day/time?", followed by more questions if you simply say "Yes, I am." If you hold steadfast with "I just can't do it" or "I don't want to do it", then you're immediately judged as selfish and rude. Of course, if this doesn't bother you at all, then a simple, full-stop "No" is great. Personally, I have trouble with being this blunt and reticent with my close friends and family.
It doesn't bother me even one tiny bit. I'm not responsible for what they choose to think.