Recent content by Wyniia

This is not about her being in the street, rather than not in the street. She has several good years still and when the time comes we will be there for her, me and the Sis. It helps no one if she runs through her SS has nothing to show for. We are not all the same, but I’m happy that your mom...

Yes, thank you and I hear you!

Thank you, trumpeting_angel!

In the end, I Love her but decided she should pay rent and half the utilities, this way I can further myself and will be better able to provide for her when the time comes and she really needs me. Also, she promised not to access any of the money I have put into an emergency savings fund for...

^^^ all of this!!!

Thank you! Yes! I will get on that!!!

Gosh, thanks everyone! I tried to talk to her, she thinks I‘m micromanaging her life, lol! Tough love I guess! Think I read somewhere that Assisted Living was cruel for mom‘s, but I do think that everyone‘s situation is different. I travel most of my time for work so will not always be there for...

I spoke with her about this, honestly I also believe it to be the best option and for her to return to the workforce as soon as vaccines come out but she is against it. Golly, she’s soooo stubborn!

Sorry to hear that your mom’s not well. Where do you live and is there any help front he government? This is exactly what I worry about. And I already had a feeling I‘m going to have to help significantly.

Thank you for the heads up, Can you please tell me what you mean by DHS. Happy New Year!!!!

The way she talks I see old patterns forming, buying this and spending on that. I think I may start charging rent and nudge her into something like this. Should I do this or yes, I am single claim her instead? I’m hoping she can actually start working again after vaccine come out. Also, how...

Wow, thank you soooo much! This looks like a great place to get started. If anything they may be able to advise or connect! Happy New Year!!!!

This is an excellent question, I will have to ask her about a pension. She used to serve herself, years ago, in the army.

Hi thank you so kindly for the wealth of information. I’m currently on a loooong Roadtrip for work and as soon as I have a free moment I will read each and everyone of the answers. I hope you had wonderful holidays and your friends and loved ones are safe and sound! Happy New Year!

I totally agree, but she has been struggling finding work for years now. And now with Covid honestly we're afraid sending her to work. Thank goodness she has health insurance through the military for life.