drinkthepoison
Confused about dryer sheets
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Hello. I've been lurking a while but haven't posted.
I'm single, 36, female in NYC, unhappy in my job and dreaming of escape.
When I look at my financial situation, I think I may be able to retire in 10-15 years, but I'm not sure and would be grateful for feedback.
Earnings:
Salary: 150k
Bonus: 25k (I usually get ~120%)
Stock (RSUs): 15k
Company also contributes 4% of salary to a pension, so ~$6k this year (when I retire, pension can be taken as a lump sum into an IRA, or as an annuity after a certain age)
Savings: 390k total, consisting of:
Roth IRA: $63k (I have been taking advantage of "mega backdoor roth" this year to roll over after-tax 401k savings into the roth.)
Roth 401k: $9k (I stopped contributing to it after I realized the traditional 401k tax benefits are more in my favor & I can fund roth IRA through the "mega backdoor" method)
Rollover IRA: $58k
Regular 401k: $152k
Pension: $24k
Brokerage: $47k
Emergency Fund: $35k
HSA: $2.5k
Asset allocation is balanced across accounts - NOT including the pension or the emergency fund (which is 25k in a 2% 1-yr CD and 10k in an ally savings account at 1.85%):
US Stock 59% (Large Cap 50%, Small/Mid Cap 9%)
International Stock 33% (Developed 18%, Emerging 11%, Frontier 4%)
REITs (SCHH) 6%
Commodities (GLTR & GNR) 2%
Cash for trading 1%
These are in index funds with low expense ratios wherever possible. There isn't a bond allocation because I already have so much cash in the emergency fund and I want to be aggressive. (I am fully aware that the stock market will crash again & these balances will drop, and I am confident that I will not panic sell and will instead continue to buy stocks "at a discount" according to my pre-defined asset allocation.)
Costs:
Yearly spend after tax is around $70k
1550/month rent - I have a rent-stabilized apartment which is both great and terrible. It's huge for NYC, has a great commute, in a trendy neighborhood, sunlight and a view, but the building is poorly maintained by a slum landlord who's trying to pressure me out and I'm genuinely afraid it will collapse one day / it's also surrounded by factories spewing pollution which I'm afraid will make me sick. I've been here ten years but this isn't a stable situation & I have to assume it could end any moment. My rent would likely double after moving. (I've considered buying, but I don't want to leave NYC anytime soon, and when I run the numbers, it doesn't make sense - costs here are so high that the "maintenance + taxes" costs as much as I'm currently paying in rent, and that doesn't even include the mortgage.)
The estimate of 10-15 years to retire is based on a 3.5% withdrawal rate & needing about $2.5 million. It's also assuming 5% rate of return (since some assets are cash or pension which return lower than stocks) and that I'll keep lifestyle inflation in check and put all raises/bonuses into more savings. It doesn't account for buying an apartment - assumes I'll rent forever. (Once I retire I could easily see myself traveling & living in cheaper places to take advantage of "geographic arbitrage" - though I'd have to be somewhere with good public transport because I don't drive.)
Questions I'm trying to figure out:
I'm miserable at my job, love to travel, love art, theatre, & culture - would be incredibly happy early retiring - anything I can do to kickstart it or to improve what I'm currently doing?
I have been focused this year on saving as much as I can, so my savings rate has dramatically increased (targeting to save around 75-80k this year including employer contributions) but I still don't see a light at the end of the tunnel anytime soon - probably around 15 years (I'll be 50) depending on the stock market.
I've looked at quitting my job and going back to school, but the things I love (the arts) don't pay. I'm currently in a technology management position - I could get back into coding (17k for good 6 month coding bootcamp) but it's a lot of work for something I don't adore and jobs may not end up paying more anyway. (Maybe worth it though to boost resume and escape from the current place, which is drowning in politics & stress...)
To throw a wrench in things - I would love to have a child - but being single, living in NYC, and biologically almost out of time doesn't look like this has much chance of being affordable. I don't have any family nearby so wouldn't have any help unless I paid a nanny (which I'd have to, to keep my job... but then what's the point of having a baby if you're not there to raise them?).
Current job does have great benefits and 6 month maternity leave... could have a baby while staying at this job for the health insurance and maternity leave but... then what??
I've been working nonstop since I was 18 (all the way through college) & at this point just feel absolutely burned out and like my life is passing me by and going to waste.
Would be grateful for advice.
I'm single, 36, female in NYC, unhappy in my job and dreaming of escape.
When I look at my financial situation, I think I may be able to retire in 10-15 years, but I'm not sure and would be grateful for feedback.
Earnings:
Salary: 150k
Bonus: 25k (I usually get ~120%)
Stock (RSUs): 15k
Company also contributes 4% of salary to a pension, so ~$6k this year (when I retire, pension can be taken as a lump sum into an IRA, or as an annuity after a certain age)
Savings: 390k total, consisting of:
Roth IRA: $63k (I have been taking advantage of "mega backdoor roth" this year to roll over after-tax 401k savings into the roth.)
Roth 401k: $9k (I stopped contributing to it after I realized the traditional 401k tax benefits are more in my favor & I can fund roth IRA through the "mega backdoor" method)
Rollover IRA: $58k
Regular 401k: $152k
Pension: $24k
Brokerage: $47k
Emergency Fund: $35k
HSA: $2.5k
Asset allocation is balanced across accounts - NOT including the pension or the emergency fund (which is 25k in a 2% 1-yr CD and 10k in an ally savings account at 1.85%):
US Stock 59% (Large Cap 50%, Small/Mid Cap 9%)
International Stock 33% (Developed 18%, Emerging 11%, Frontier 4%)
REITs (SCHH) 6%
Commodities (GLTR & GNR) 2%
Cash for trading 1%
These are in index funds with low expense ratios wherever possible. There isn't a bond allocation because I already have so much cash in the emergency fund and I want to be aggressive. (I am fully aware that the stock market will crash again & these balances will drop, and I am confident that I will not panic sell and will instead continue to buy stocks "at a discount" according to my pre-defined asset allocation.)
Costs:
Yearly spend after tax is around $70k
1550/month rent - I have a rent-stabilized apartment which is both great and terrible. It's huge for NYC, has a great commute, in a trendy neighborhood, sunlight and a view, but the building is poorly maintained by a slum landlord who's trying to pressure me out and I'm genuinely afraid it will collapse one day / it's also surrounded by factories spewing pollution which I'm afraid will make me sick. I've been here ten years but this isn't a stable situation & I have to assume it could end any moment. My rent would likely double after moving. (I've considered buying, but I don't want to leave NYC anytime soon, and when I run the numbers, it doesn't make sense - costs here are so high that the "maintenance + taxes" costs as much as I'm currently paying in rent, and that doesn't even include the mortgage.)
The estimate of 10-15 years to retire is based on a 3.5% withdrawal rate & needing about $2.5 million. It's also assuming 5% rate of return (since some assets are cash or pension which return lower than stocks) and that I'll keep lifestyle inflation in check and put all raises/bonuses into more savings. It doesn't account for buying an apartment - assumes I'll rent forever. (Once I retire I could easily see myself traveling & living in cheaper places to take advantage of "geographic arbitrage" - though I'd have to be somewhere with good public transport because I don't drive.)
Questions I'm trying to figure out:
I'm miserable at my job, love to travel, love art, theatre, & culture - would be incredibly happy early retiring - anything I can do to kickstart it or to improve what I'm currently doing?
I have been focused this year on saving as much as I can, so my savings rate has dramatically increased (targeting to save around 75-80k this year including employer contributions) but I still don't see a light at the end of the tunnel anytime soon - probably around 15 years (I'll be 50) depending on the stock market.
I've looked at quitting my job and going back to school, but the things I love (the arts) don't pay. I'm currently in a technology management position - I could get back into coding (17k for good 6 month coding bootcamp) but it's a lot of work for something I don't adore and jobs may not end up paying more anyway. (Maybe worth it though to boost resume and escape from the current place, which is drowning in politics & stress...)
To throw a wrench in things - I would love to have a child - but being single, living in NYC, and biologically almost out of time doesn't look like this has much chance of being affordable. I don't have any family nearby so wouldn't have any help unless I paid a nanny (which I'd have to, to keep my job... but then what's the point of having a baby if you're not there to raise them?).
Current job does have great benefits and 6 month maternity leave... could have a baby while staying at this job for the health insurance and maternity leave but... then what??
I've been working nonstop since I was 18 (all the way through college) & at this point just feel absolutely burned out and like my life is passing me by and going to waste.
Would be grateful for advice.