fireme said:But meeting women is not something I'm great at doing and wealth does attract.
You do not want the kind of women money attracts. Trust me, if you need a prenup to protect you from your bride, you are not doing yourself any favors by marrying.
OK, I had to take a hot bath and brood over the wisdom of adding the second part of this response. After all, I have my own weird obsession with wealth, as this thread attests.
But I have to say it: Marriage is not a my money/your money situation. It is an "our money" proposition. Yes, I think if my husband retired at age 35 and I had to get up every morning and pull on my hard hat and work boots and tippy-toe out of the room while he lay wrapped in cosy, peaceful slumber, I would be unhappy with that situation. I think if he said, "Well, dear, as soon as you save up YOUR $1.75 million dollars, you can retire too" I would be even more unhappy. I don't think most women with self-respect would consider a marriage with a prenup; women who would consider the prenup who have an ounce of brains will figure out some way to undo it.
Marriage is a partnership. Pick a partner who shares your values and your work ethic, work until you can both retire, then enjoy your retirement together. Or consider not marrying and enjoying relationships that are not legally binding.
Just my opinion, and meant in a friendly way.