jazz4cash
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There was a lady in Pontiac Mich who died in 2009 and her body wasn't discovered until 2014 apparently partially due to auto pay of bills. I think a live spouse could deal with autopay. What I do every month is pretty much look at the payment email.
https://www.cnn.com/2014/03/07/us/michigan-mummified-body-found/index.html
It's quite a stretch to attribute the lack of discovery to autopay in any significant way. I've mowed my neighbor's lawn a few times when I thought they were unable to do it but I think I'd poke around a bit more before 5 years went by.