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I started life rather small and shy and doubted how much social worth I had compared to the others around me. Class mates seemed so tall, popular, athletic, and quite wealthy, talking about family vacations here and there.
Over the years I learned about exercising, dancing, interacting with others, and investing. Eventually I took a few trips and cruises. And I caught up in size and started filling out some in high school.
I find that I've became the type of person I envied in the past slowly. It is so fun now to be recognized and greeted warmly by others when I enter an establishment, or go to a dance, or exercise class. Hugs, smiles, and vigorous hand shakes are now the norm.
At some point the liking by others becomes very addicting. I find I have to consciously interact with the less mainstream more reserved in the groups but always find it rewarding as they appreciate attention the most.
Indeed life has been a do it to myself project. A feel good achievement. So enough bragging and self back patting and to my question.
I suspect age and maturity, interacting with others skills, and Charisma has had a significant influence on others here as well.
Did others here have to learn this Charisma as a some what foreign concept or were you the Naturals on this, always at the front of the pack so to speak?
Teachers had a test to determine popularity, everyone would list who they most wanted to be or were friends with. Some had everyone, others just a couple if any.
Over the years I learned about exercising, dancing, interacting with others, and investing. Eventually I took a few trips and cruises. And I caught up in size and started filling out some in high school.
I find that I've became the type of person I envied in the past slowly. It is so fun now to be recognized and greeted warmly by others when I enter an establishment, or go to a dance, or exercise class. Hugs, smiles, and vigorous hand shakes are now the norm.
At some point the liking by others becomes very addicting. I find I have to consciously interact with the less mainstream more reserved in the groups but always find it rewarding as they appreciate attention the most.
Indeed life has been a do it to myself project. A feel good achievement. So enough bragging and self back patting and to my question.
I suspect age and maturity, interacting with others skills, and Charisma has had a significant influence on others here as well.
Did others here have to learn this Charisma as a some what foreign concept or were you the Naturals on this, always at the front of the pack so to speak?
Teachers had a test to determine popularity, everyone would list who they most wanted to be or were friends with. Some had everyone, others just a couple if any.