IFFF, I were smart....it would have been MUCH easier to just have brought my UK wife into the US and THEN started the immigration process....I understand now why folks just jump the border. Doing it the correct way is seriously stupid and hard......well....stupidlier..... Yes, my staying in the UK would have been easier.... not financially better.....but easier.
F4, in a coded manner and sure you will understand. Drive down the "Hill" to SB-II and maybe get Colin to fix you a BaconMixer and then call the admin guy for NG, his name is B. La... and ask him for advice.
Make sense.