With our outrageous daycare cost (which I realize is temporary) we aim to lose about $19k this year if DW decides to quit career and become SAHM.
I figure we could easily sacrifice 10k in the budget, and 10k of investing to recoup DW salary loss if she did SAHM.
My problem is there is actually more to lose, and gain than is probably makes sense to try and quantify. I already earn more than 2x her SocSec, so assuming we last the test of time she stands to get half of my SSI without really "losing" anything there in terms of yrs reported.
Gain in vehicle longevity with loss of extra daycare/career commutes.
Plus, DW admts SAHM might driver her crazy a little and we are not creative people, so paying for lesson plans at an early age seems like a WIN instead of a LOSS of time with the kid, we get a WIN with the structured day/lesson plans at daycare.
We don't really lose IRA contributions since we are married. Am I missing anything here?
I figure we could easily sacrifice 10k in the budget, and 10k of investing to recoup DW salary loss if she did SAHM.
My problem is there is actually more to lose, and gain than is probably makes sense to try and quantify. I already earn more than 2x her SocSec, so assuming we last the test of time she stands to get half of my SSI without really "losing" anything there in terms of yrs reported.
Gain in vehicle longevity with loss of extra daycare/career commutes.
Plus, DW admts SAHM might driver her crazy a little and we are not creative people, so paying for lesson plans at an early age seems like a WIN instead of a LOSS of time with the kid, we get a WIN with the structured day/lesson plans at daycare.
We don't really lose IRA contributions since we are married. Am I missing anything here?