ohyes
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While I doubt many of you have a mom with Ekbom Syndrome (I am just that lucky(!), I am posting, just in case.
My mom is 86 years old. A few years ago, she started believing she has parasites. She spends hours (today, she told me it is 12 hours) trying to get them out of her body. She is obsessed with it (one of the huge pieces of evidence she has Ekbom Syndrome).
My brother, who lives in the same town, listens and does not argue. What is the point?, he wisely asks. He is correct, from what Google tells me.
Me, I have argued.
No more. I stopped a few days ago. My 87yo dad apparently agrees. Whether he really does, or just to keep peace, I have no idea. They were both furious with me a week ago when I said I had leave after my mom brought up the parasites.
Mom talks about this incessantly and I have decided to not visit for a few weeks. They live about an hour away. When I say incessantly, I mean she talks about it (them) non-stop for 1-2 hours.
Not too many 62yo humans still have both parents on earth. I am struggling with this. I want to spend time with them and be of assistance as needed, but I am so weary of this topic. My brother told me he prays (over and over), Your words to speak, your silence to keep. I keep forgetting to use that prayer, though it sounds helpful.
Any experience/advice with dealing? I want to be nice & present without going nuts.
My mom is 86 years old. A few years ago, she started believing she has parasites. She spends hours (today, she told me it is 12 hours) trying to get them out of her body. She is obsessed with it (one of the huge pieces of evidence she has Ekbom Syndrome).
My brother, who lives in the same town, listens and does not argue. What is the point?, he wisely asks. He is correct, from what Google tells me.
Me, I have argued.
No more. I stopped a few days ago. My 87yo dad apparently agrees. Whether he really does, or just to keep peace, I have no idea. They were both furious with me a week ago when I said I had leave after my mom brought up the parasites.
Mom talks about this incessantly and I have decided to not visit for a few weeks. They live about an hour away. When I say incessantly, I mean she talks about it (them) non-stop for 1-2 hours.
Not too many 62yo humans still have both parents on earth. I am struggling with this. I want to spend time with them and be of assistance as needed, but I am so weary of this topic. My brother told me he prays (over and over), Your words to speak, your silence to keep. I keep forgetting to use that prayer, though it sounds helpful.
Any experience/advice with dealing? I want to be nice & present without going nuts.