I don't feel I'm overthinking it, this is pretty fundamental and basic, I'm trying to understand the underlying fundamentals and logistics.
Sure, a thing is worth what someone else will pay for it, but that's not the end of the story. Why are they willing to pay that? Is it only because someone else will, or is there something underlying it?
I want to have an answer, for myself, and also for anyone who tries to tell me that the stock market is just some kind of ponzi scheme (not literally, but some sort of 'scam'). They say, don;t invest in anything you don't understand, so I ought to understand this!
In the last example - why wouldn't the owner just sell those 2 M shares on the open market?
And selling more shares, diluting the ones I bought seems like a rather unfair thing to do to me. But I guess that's part of the deal going into it, and the dilution is to raise cash, presumably in the long term interests of the company (and shareholders), so I guess I should look at it as a (hopefully) temporary setback, or (less hopefully) an attempt to keep things going, but could eventually lead to BK anyhow.
-ERD50