I (almost) felt guilty when we sold our condo in October (but we were desperate to sell and the buyer wasn't looking for financial lessons or advice from us). A very young guy, newly out of the service, no money for a down payment. Condo selling for $130K (definitely the cheapest housing in our area). He had a job, but it seemed like the (reputable, so far as I know---major company) mortgage lender had some doubts with his income to debt ratio and he had to get a note from his employer saying that he typically gets some overtime pay to supplement the regular income. The buyer's real estate agent also negotiated that we would pay a year of condo fees ($200 a month). It seems like this guy is cutting it very close. What if the overtime stopped/he lost his job/encountered some expenses with the 20 year old condo?
It seemed crazy that he was having trouble qualifying for the loan since the mortgage payments wouldn't have been that high on a 130K mortgage, even at a higher interest rate. Assuming he was earning in the 30's, you would think he could swing the monthly payments (he also is in the Reserve, so that's additional pay). And the mortgage payments were going to be much less than the $1000 rent these condos and similar apartments in the area go for. (There did seem to be a live-in girlfriend who could help with expenses, but her name wasn't on the mortgage).
In some ways, we felt he was crazy to be getting into this. Why not wait a few years and save up some money and get lower interest rates, not have to pay mortgage insurance, have the peace of mind of a nest egg to cover unexpeted expenses (the condo never has had an assessment, but at 20 years old, one could be coming...). In other ways, we sort of admired him because it usually is best to own rather than rent, so we envied his courage in going after what he wants. DH and I have always been way too cautious, which is why he waited until our thirties to buy an inexpensive condo.
Our buyer may not be the best possible example of an irresponsible person since he wasn't looking to buy a very expensive place. What slayed me was an article I read in a women's magazine about dealing with "adult" children. They cited one example of a 26 year old who wanted a $500K home. Parents are holding the mortgage for her. She pays them back a higher interest than they could get on CDs but has a very understanding/
forgiving lender if she has a shortfall one month and gets into more housing than she could have qualified for. Supposedly a win-win situation for both. But why the hell does a 26 year old need a $500K house? What is wrong in having a starter home and working her way up to a McMansion?