my job insurance pays for 2 cleanings a year. we go 3 times a year, i spring for the extra cleanings, worth it at twice the price. my eyeglasses as a retiree are only free every 2 years, it was once a year when i worked. It doesnt matter i went every year anyway, again not a big purchase and not even a line item on the budget. i called for an apt, and was told my union changed their policy, retirees get glasses every year now too. Im all for leaving the kids money, but I did my job as a good provider, its Mommy and Daddy's time to live a little now.
As a side note, I ate the ends of the white bread for over 30 years. Now I eat it if I want to, not because I have to.