I've looked at moving to another state, as well as rejoing the military to qualify for Tricare (which covers Autism treatments to $50K a year). My moms still has a place in SC, but its in a rather high crime area, very depressed, etc.
I think I will need to stay around my family for the added support. But I will certainly look into the possibility of moving, especially if things are not going as well as I hope.
Local mom with two autistic kids says the local school does a very good job. So, I am going to give them a shot. I am glad I found someone to discuss with, as I had some preconceived notions about my little town and its underpreforming school.