carlg1977 said:
The toughest thing will be to keep the spending in check. ... Did you feel this Rich in Tampa, if so how did you control it?? I am hoping that having the money automatically invested before seeing it will be the ticket!?...
BTW, Rich in Tampa, have you read "Rich Dad, Poor Dad"? I just finished it and he made me feel like a chump for going to school so long! He specifically mentioned physicians and their financial troubles 2 or 3 times in the book.
You and your DW ("dear wife" around here) have awesome financial potential. You stated the situation the best I have ever heard it: a financial diet easily leading to binges
. Here is what I prescribe, Doctor:
1. Binge for a while. It won't kill you. Take a cruise, buy a nice (but not too nice) car. Get some of it out of your system. There is a life before retirement that needs to be fun, too.
2. Where you really need to be careful is your long term fixed expenses, i.e. house, debts, etc. Be disciplined there, both in terms of not over-buying, and not slacking on repayment by taking an aggressive ARM mortgage, etc.
3. I know it is a cliche, but set up an AUTOMATIC withdrawal from your gross paycheck -- obviously into your tax deferred accounts, but also into a taxable investment such that 15% of your gross is saved each year. Really. Trust me.
4. After debts, tax shelters, and self-inflicted savings are AUTOMATICALLY taken care of each month,
then you will know how much you
really make (from a FIRE standpoint). Select your house, vacation, spending, etc. accordingly.
5. Enjoy your wife's earning power, but consider it all gravy, extra savings and play money. That way, if or when you have kids, you won't get thrown off track.
As for Rich Dad, yes he feels we are "suckers" for going to school so long. It is sad that he views this as a predominantly financial decision. In reality, our payback is the privilege of caring for patients, having them trust their lives to us, helping them die, whatever. If you lose focus on that, you will be unhappy. If you don't, you'll be rich no matter how much you earn.
From where I stand, you sound pretty together on all of this. Nothing but bright future for both of you.