Caroline said:Not seeing people all day seems to be making me more introverted and withdrawn. It has started to seem like work to get dressed and go out. And when I am out I don't like to talk to people -- store clerks, etc. etc.
Some days the only people I "talk" to are you guys. How unhealthy is THAT?
There is a difference between being an introvert and being withdrawn just like there is a difference between introversion and shyness. I'm an extreme introvert but I'm not that shy. One of my best friends is an extrovert but she is very shy." Being withdrawn can be caused by a life situation, and depending on the circumstances and extent, may not be healthy if it interfers with your natural emotional needs.
Is it healthy to stay at home or to not like to talk to store clerks? Maybe. For the most part, an individual needs to answer this question for themselves. It may be very healthy to be a "hermit" if interactions cause a person stress and anxiety.
As for me, I like being at home alone (with pets) but I also like "getting out" for physical activity (bicycling, running, hiking, backpacking). I don't mind crowds and I don't mind being around a group of people as long as I don't have a social obligation to interact with them. One-on-one interactions are OK but one of the most agonizing things I can do is sit (be trapped) around a table and have lunch or dinner with a group of casual friends.