TimevsMoney
Confused about dryer sheets
Hi, I am relatively new to the forum and have enjoyed reading so much insight. I am however overwhelmed by all your collective knowledge as much of it is over my head. I even had to take a crash course on the myriad of acronyms.
Ok, here are the 5 questions I would really appreciate any insight on. I am excited but very nervous about retirement looming as I begin to see the finish line in the distance. I gave my notice to my boss last week. July '81 start date and a July '18 finish line date. Just transpose those 2 numbers and the curtain comes down.
1. My Portfolio and Chances of Success: I would appreciate feedback on my portfolio, asset allocation etc that I note below.
2. FA vs DIY: This is the biggie for me. I have little knowledge on investing. If I want to go at it alone to save FA fees how best to get up to speed with self learning? Where tools do I utilize? Can I get professional advice with one time charge? i have no idea how to start.
3. Budget/Expenses: I am somewhat embarrassed by my total annualized expenditures compared to what I see on this forum. I thought my life was rather simply, does everyone really live on 60-70K a year?
4. My final 120 Days: Did you stay focused on work? I confess to spending more time on this type of forum then giving it my full energies at work, I want to be respectful and give it a full day but it is a struggle.
5. Structure in M-F 8-5 PM Retirement Life: Before you retired did you have a plan on how your 8-5 PM Monday through Friday former work week looked like? Did you have a firm plan on how you would spend your days? I have a few hobbies but nothing major and I have no handyman skills. I would love your thoughts on how you approached your day to day retirement life.
My Situation:
I am 59, DW is 57.5. Two wonderful grown daughters out of house. No debt. I thought 2 years ago my retirement date would be age 62 but in mid 2017 started giving thought to moving it up. I have worked for the same Dow 30 company for 37 years. I am in Sales and Marketing. Some of the work I still like and I enjoy my staff of 10 direct reports. But I am very tired of the travel (by car and plane), i have a back problem as well as a few other health issues. I am a former long distance runner with 40 marathons under my belt but cannot run anymore due to injuries. Thus, I have gained 25 pounds and that alone causes me some dissatisfaction with work and frustration with myself for allowing me to get to this point. (poor eating habits on the road with lack of sleep). You all say when you retire the best day is Monday morning. For me, it will be Sunday afternoon as every Sunday while most of my working friends are out and about I have to open up that computer to review the prior week sales results, cringed a bit then prepare for sales calls that I lead for Monday morning. Work is always on my mind on Sunday's.
Investments: If I track every dime and quarter I can find under the car seats and such we have 2.1 million with about 65% of that in our 401K. I think our asset allocation is roughly 50% stock mutual funds and 40% in bond funds and about 10% in cash. I am clueless as to what an Index fund is or an ETF which is in there somewhere. I am paying Fidelity 1.2% (gulp) as my FA to manage about 700K of the above. For the first time ever I looked up our mutual fund fees and they run .4% to .9%. We have about 15 different mutual funds. My goal would be to not pay those high FA fees but that means I have to do it and I am not comfortable with the process. Would I have to open an online account with say Vanguard or Fidelity to avoid that 1.2% FA fee? And if I do isn't it expensive to buy and sell trades? Please help me with your suggestions.
Expenses: After what I'm read on this forum, it makes me a tad embarrassed to acknowledge this but I reviewed our prior year and our annualize budget is 105K which includes 10K for health insurance but nothing for taxes. How do you determine your effective tax rate? Even if I assume a 20% rate that would bring my annual withdraw rate up to about 130-135K which seems like a ton!
Income: Once I retire in July, for the next 2 years my sweet bride of 36 years will be bringing home the income as a school teacher. (I will be joining her health insurance plan when I retire). She will work till she is 60. Thus we will have annual income of about 62K until either 2020 or 2021. With a total need of 135K that shortfall requires a withdrawal of 73K in today's dollars or close to 4.0% drain. Once my DW retires we intend to utilize SS and our 3 pensions as soon as possible at age 62. With those taken together that brings us 78K annually in today's dollars and yes each pension has a COLA. Rough math tells me with our 135K budget I am somewhere between 3.75% and 4% withdraw not including inflation. I read a lot of you manage a withdrawal rate of 3% or less. Am I stretching it too thin? The FIRE Cal shows between a 96% and 100% success rate over a 32 year period but I am not sure if I should rely on that.
Our expenses are driven by loving to travel to see our daughters who live far away, LA and D.C. (17K in the budget for now), eating out (8K) and 3 doggies (7K for boarding and such). I know I have control over some of these discretionary areas but I would like to try to retire with a similar lifestyle.
Thank you in advance for any feedback! As a thank you for the awesome advice I will receive I will now provide a free tip to the guys on this forum. Do you get an annual physical? If not you should. Do you get annual blood work? You better. 2 years ago I got my blood work back and it showed my platelets were slightly under the low average for a man (140). Mine was 124. My primary care said it was likely no biggie but over an abundance of caution she sent me out to a few specialist that I was sure would be a waste of time. 3 specialist later and one bone marrow tap later it revealed I have a rare bone disease called Multiply Myeloma. We caught it early but with no cure in sight treatment will follow at some point and my life span will likely not match the national averages. I'm gonna live life to the fullest each and every day with my sweet DW of 35 years. Guys, get your annual physical and blood work and if anything is out of pattern, check it out!
Ok, here are the 5 questions I would really appreciate any insight on. I am excited but very nervous about retirement looming as I begin to see the finish line in the distance. I gave my notice to my boss last week. July '81 start date and a July '18 finish line date. Just transpose those 2 numbers and the curtain comes down.
1. My Portfolio and Chances of Success: I would appreciate feedback on my portfolio, asset allocation etc that I note below.
2. FA vs DIY: This is the biggie for me. I have little knowledge on investing. If I want to go at it alone to save FA fees how best to get up to speed with self learning? Where tools do I utilize? Can I get professional advice with one time charge? i have no idea how to start.
3. Budget/Expenses: I am somewhat embarrassed by my total annualized expenditures compared to what I see on this forum. I thought my life was rather simply, does everyone really live on 60-70K a year?
4. My final 120 Days: Did you stay focused on work? I confess to spending more time on this type of forum then giving it my full energies at work, I want to be respectful and give it a full day but it is a struggle.
5. Structure in M-F 8-5 PM Retirement Life: Before you retired did you have a plan on how your 8-5 PM Monday through Friday former work week looked like? Did you have a firm plan on how you would spend your days? I have a few hobbies but nothing major and I have no handyman skills. I would love your thoughts on how you approached your day to day retirement life.
My Situation:
I am 59, DW is 57.5. Two wonderful grown daughters out of house. No debt. I thought 2 years ago my retirement date would be age 62 but in mid 2017 started giving thought to moving it up. I have worked for the same Dow 30 company for 37 years. I am in Sales and Marketing. Some of the work I still like and I enjoy my staff of 10 direct reports. But I am very tired of the travel (by car and plane), i have a back problem as well as a few other health issues. I am a former long distance runner with 40 marathons under my belt but cannot run anymore due to injuries. Thus, I have gained 25 pounds and that alone causes me some dissatisfaction with work and frustration with myself for allowing me to get to this point. (poor eating habits on the road with lack of sleep). You all say when you retire the best day is Monday morning. For me, it will be Sunday afternoon as every Sunday while most of my working friends are out and about I have to open up that computer to review the prior week sales results, cringed a bit then prepare for sales calls that I lead for Monday morning. Work is always on my mind on Sunday's.
Investments: If I track every dime and quarter I can find under the car seats and such we have 2.1 million with about 65% of that in our 401K. I think our asset allocation is roughly 50% stock mutual funds and 40% in bond funds and about 10% in cash. I am clueless as to what an Index fund is or an ETF which is in there somewhere. I am paying Fidelity 1.2% (gulp) as my FA to manage about 700K of the above. For the first time ever I looked up our mutual fund fees and they run .4% to .9%. We have about 15 different mutual funds. My goal would be to not pay those high FA fees but that means I have to do it and I am not comfortable with the process. Would I have to open an online account with say Vanguard or Fidelity to avoid that 1.2% FA fee? And if I do isn't it expensive to buy and sell trades? Please help me with your suggestions.
Expenses: After what I'm read on this forum, it makes me a tad embarrassed to acknowledge this but I reviewed our prior year and our annualize budget is 105K which includes 10K for health insurance but nothing for taxes. How do you determine your effective tax rate? Even if I assume a 20% rate that would bring my annual withdraw rate up to about 130-135K which seems like a ton!
Income: Once I retire in July, for the next 2 years my sweet bride of 36 years will be bringing home the income as a school teacher. (I will be joining her health insurance plan when I retire). She will work till she is 60. Thus we will have annual income of about 62K until either 2020 or 2021. With a total need of 135K that shortfall requires a withdrawal of 73K in today's dollars or close to 4.0% drain. Once my DW retires we intend to utilize SS and our 3 pensions as soon as possible at age 62. With those taken together that brings us 78K annually in today's dollars and yes each pension has a COLA. Rough math tells me with our 135K budget I am somewhere between 3.75% and 4% withdraw not including inflation. I read a lot of you manage a withdrawal rate of 3% or less. Am I stretching it too thin? The FIRE Cal shows between a 96% and 100% success rate over a 32 year period but I am not sure if I should rely on that.
Our expenses are driven by loving to travel to see our daughters who live far away, LA and D.C. (17K in the budget for now), eating out (8K) and 3 doggies (7K for boarding and such). I know I have control over some of these discretionary areas but I would like to try to retire with a similar lifestyle.
Thank you in advance for any feedback! As a thank you for the awesome advice I will receive I will now provide a free tip to the guys on this forum. Do you get an annual physical? If not you should. Do you get annual blood work? You better. 2 years ago I got my blood work back and it showed my platelets were slightly under the low average for a man (140). Mine was 124. My primary care said it was likely no biggie but over an abundance of caution she sent me out to a few specialist that I was sure would be a waste of time. 3 specialist later and one bone marrow tap later it revealed I have a rare bone disease called Multiply Myeloma. We caught it early but with no cure in sight treatment will follow at some point and my life span will likely not match the national averages. I'm gonna live life to the fullest each and every day with my sweet DW of 35 years. Guys, get your annual physical and blood work and if anything is out of pattern, check it out!