I have always been an introvert. For years, I thought something was "wrong" with me because I would much rather sit and read a book than go out and socialize.I am starting to understand introverted stay at home folks more. Anybody else enjoying staying at home?
Oops. Sorry, gwraigty. I posted before reading the thread and seeing your mention of the book. But, I'm certainly glad others enjoyed this book as much as I did!An excellent book to understand introverts is Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking by Susan Cain. I bought it in ebook form and it describes how I feel extremely well.
This is the biggest challenge for me.Interacting with groups of people can be exhausting for me. Family and friends are welcome and cause no stress.
Hey, buzz off--we don't want to be understood!
Just kidding. Yes, I'm right on the borderline. Love staying home and love going out. I'll be glad when I can go out again, but am finding plenty of pleasures right here.
Oops. Sorry, gwraigty. I posted before reading the thread and seeing your mention of the book. But, I'm certainly glad others enjoyed this book as much as I did!
This is me too. I usually test ENTJ but I loathe small talk and parties where I know no one or only a few people give me anxiety. Even some family events give me hives. I was actually delighted that we got "uninvited" to a wedding that got scaled down thanks to coronavirus. After a stressful week I sometimes find myself desperate for some alone time. I think my job required more extroversion than I have, and it's a relief to be there less as I ease into retirement.+1
I straddle the line also. Sometimes, I enjoy being with others, sometimes I just want to spend time with myself. But in general, I dislike big crowds and gatherings (I always hated big work conferences and schmoozefests where you had to do small talk with people that you often didn't know or didn't like - but I don't need to do that anymore since I retired). Whenever we did those Meyers Briggs personality profiles, I would oscillate between ENTJ and INTJ depending upon my mood at the time.
I suppose that I am this way because I used to have to travel a lot for work, so I had to be comfortable eating alone and seeing sights on my own. Probably more of a self-reliant personality than introvert vs extrovert. Sine retirement, I have no trouble going on vacations alone when the DW doesn't share the same interest in the destination that I do. Truth be told, since I traveled so much for work, she probably now enjoys her "Me time" when I am gone.
I remember when I first read the definition of introvert vs extrovert. It was such an eye opener for me. I thought I just didn't like people. The simple definition has been noted here. Introverts recharge by being alone. Extroverts recharge by being around other people. That's it.
Here's a simpler explanation: extroverts suck the life out of introverts, like vampires. Works for me.
But what do introverts do to extroverts? Put us to sleep?
Anybody else enjoying staying at home?
That part of Covid has no effect on me. I like that I'm more psychologically prepared than most people. I'm not very social. I had a dream about really nice scissors last night.
In my experience, extroverts tend to ignore introverts unless they want something.