Hey just wanted to introduce myself. I'm Bob and this may be the year I take the plunge.
I never had a goal of ER since it didn't seem to be in the cards until a windfall set me up for the potential to be comfortable in retirement in my 70s. Then we had the market we did and I am in a position I never thought I would be. This has lead me into a deep dive into running the numbers and realizing I can walk away, but debating on if I should.
I worry my sudden desire to retire is part Covid burnout from staying at home and part my current NW sapping any motivation at work. It has definitely made me less tolerant of the workplace games and I find myself coasting now. I also think not having a goal of ER is messing with my head a bit now that I can. I set a somewhat arbitrary goal in my 50s sort of if I hit this dollar amount by 55 I would retire when I started seeing the large increases in my NW. At this point I could probably hit the number if I kept on the path I am, but I also wonder why since there was no real reason behind the goal.
I guess I am just struggling with deciding how much is enough above what I need and the fear of walking away from a job I can tolerate most of the time. There is also the fact it just feel so young to walk away so I worry it is all for the wrong reasons. It is a weird place to be in and also not really being able to discuss it with family and friends. I have had some bad experiences there with money so it is now a subject I avoid.
I never had a goal of ER since it didn't seem to be in the cards until a windfall set me up for the potential to be comfortable in retirement in my 70s. Then we had the market we did and I am in a position I never thought I would be. This has lead me into a deep dive into running the numbers and realizing I can walk away, but debating on if I should.
I worry my sudden desire to retire is part Covid burnout from staying at home and part my current NW sapping any motivation at work. It has definitely made me less tolerant of the workplace games and I find myself coasting now. I also think not having a goal of ER is messing with my head a bit now that I can. I set a somewhat arbitrary goal in my 50s sort of if I hit this dollar amount by 55 I would retire when I started seeing the large increases in my NW. At this point I could probably hit the number if I kept on the path I am, but I also wonder why since there was no real reason behind the goal.
I guess I am just struggling with deciding how much is enough above what I need and the fear of walking away from a job I can tolerate most of the time. There is also the fact it just feel so young to walk away so I worry it is all for the wrong reasons. It is a weird place to be in and also not really being able to discuss it with family and friends. I have had some bad experiences there with money so it is now a subject I avoid.