Mr._johngalt
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
- Joined
- Dec 3, 2002
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You sound very happy with your "September plan".
That's good. Although I am well into retirement now,
my wife still works (healthcare) and trying to integrate
her into my retired state has proven troublesome.
Before we married in 2001, I had it (ER) all worked out,
but for one person. Now that 2 of us have to be
considered, things are complicated, and more than twice so. For example, I am a "planner" and spend a lot of time on "what ifs" etc.. My wife is more impulsive
and tends to plunge into things. I get into enough trouble even after extensive planning and so it may
appear that I am footdragging, when in fact I am
gung ho, just trying to avoid mistakes. Of course,
too much of this leads to paralysis by analysis. On the
other hand a lot of ER types (me included) don't have
a lot of margin for error. This makes us cautious.
I suppose that getting older adds to this trait.
That's good. Although I am well into retirement now,
my wife still works (healthcare) and trying to integrate
her into my retired state has proven troublesome.
Before we married in 2001, I had it (ER) all worked out,
but for one person. Now that 2 of us have to be
considered, things are complicated, and more than twice so. For example, I am a "planner" and spend a lot of time on "what ifs" etc.. My wife is more impulsive
and tends to plunge into things. I get into enough trouble even after extensive planning and so it may
appear that I am footdragging, when in fact I am
gung ho, just trying to avoid mistakes. Of course,
too much of this leads to paralysis by analysis. On the
other hand a lot of ER types (me included) don't have
a lot of margin for error. This makes us cautious.
I suppose that getting older adds to this trait.