My job is not conducive to "weisure". When I am at work, I am at work. I don't call family on the phone, or do personal things except in extremis and rarely...I can't. I'm too busy with lots of phone calls and field visits. I do go out to lunch with friends at the office a couple of times a week, and I also do things with them outside the office on a regular basis. And when I'm home, I never check my office voice mail or e-mail or worry about things that I have to do the next day. I find a do best when I strictly compartmentalize the two and never the twain shall meet.