Re: Mod Please Move to OTher ? Major Vulture Attack in Progress
I know this may sound silly, but when I am in a difficult situation that I do not know how to handle, I have always resorted to "Love and Respect"
Tell your mother/sister calmly and lovingly but with few words, your gut feelings.
If they do not respect your feelings and argue with you, then at least you can feel whole, knowing your presented your case in an open loving way. How they take it and what they do with it is not in your control.
Also, your feelings are just that! They are yours. No one, not your mother, sister or minister can MAKE you feel any emotion. This puts you in the victim role. Only you control and choose your emotions.
I know this may sound silly, but when I am in a difficult situation that I do not know how to handle, I have always resorted to "Love and Respect"
Tell your mother/sister calmly and lovingly but with few words, your gut feelings.
If they do not respect your feelings and argue with you, then at least you can feel whole, knowing your presented your case in an open loving way. How they take it and what they do with it is not in your control.
Also, your feelings are just that! They are yours. No one, not your mother, sister or minister can MAKE you feel any emotion. This puts you in the victim role. Only you control and choose your emotions.