samsterdog
Dryer sheet wannabe
Been working at same job for 23+ years and 6 more years of similar work before that and looking for a change. Not wanting to do the same type of work (software) and really just ready to RE. DW and I could probably both RE with a minor lifestyle change, but DW has a good job with the gov't and is not looking to leave for several years. This extension would allow us to RE then with no lifestyle change.
Are there any other husbands on this forum with DW working? While she says she's fine with it, I believe there is likely an underlying questioning of this which could lead to resentment. It may not happen, but I'd hate to go the next several years with that possibility. I've thought about potentially getting a part time job and would be doing the housework that we currently share.
Not looking for someone to make the decision for me, but rather I'd like to know if others have been in this situation and how it worked out. The same goes for husbands whose wives ER'd. Don't want to be sexist!
Thanks for any input.
Are there any other husbands on this forum with DW working? While she says she's fine with it, I believe there is likely an underlying questioning of this which could lead to resentment. It may not happen, but I'd hate to go the next several years with that possibility. I've thought about potentially getting a part time job and would be doing the housework that we currently share.
Not looking for someone to make the decision for me, but rather I'd like to know if others have been in this situation and how it worked out. The same goes for husbands whose wives ER'd. Don't want to be sexist!
Thanks for any input.