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... When one person handles/controls all the finances the person left behind not only has to deal with the death of their spouse but also has to try to sort out everything. It must be devastating to learn that they're deeper in debt than thought and might lose the house.
Yes, happened to my BF's mother. His Dad died suddenly and then it came to light the big lavish spending meant there was a sizeable mortgage/debt on the house they had owned for 40 years. She ended up renting out rooms in the house to scrape by, quite a step down in lifestyle.