Sisyphus
Recycles dryer sheets
- Joined
- Aug 31, 2005
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Hi all. A brief question, but a big one:
Is is better to have one spouse stay at home with a baby now while the other works and delay ER (potentially forcing both spouses to work full time for 5-10 years while child is still young) OR is it better to have both parents work (this means daycare) so both parents could ER when the child is still young (8 or so).
Hard decision... miss some of those vital baby years because of daycare, or sacrifice "being there" when the child is between 5 and 15 years old. Not to mention the extra years of stress and work.
Thoughts? Anyone?
Is is better to have one spouse stay at home with a baby now while the other works and delay ER (potentially forcing both spouses to work full time for 5-10 years while child is still young) OR is it better to have both parents work (this means daycare) so both parents could ER when the child is still young (8 or so).
Hard decision... miss some of those vital baby years because of daycare, or sacrifice "being there" when the child is between 5 and 15 years old. Not to mention the extra years of stress and work.
Thoughts? Anyone?