Happy you posted this. I have a similar nice problem to have, that being the difficulty to walking away from something I worked very hard for, something I earned and put myself into the position to be successful and "worst of all" I'm in a role that I "sort of" enjoy, in all actuality I really enjoy because as many others have pointed out here is I have the clear option to stay or leave and it is totally dependent on me, which is probably the most valuable thing that I would be leaving on the table. On the other hand, I'm falling into the wealthiest guy at the cemetery.
But, driving to work this morning, which is only 10 minutes away in a very commute-intensive area, I'm pondering scenarios when I'm not making that drive, the ins and outs, the pluses and minuses and the ability to do anything else that I can't otherwise do now.
There is something to be said about being in the class of "optionally employed" which is something I also worked very hard to achieve. Thanks to this community I have so much more self-realization for my situation.
But, driving to work this morning, which is only 10 minutes away in a very commute-intensive area, I'm pondering scenarios when I'm not making that drive, the ins and outs, the pluses and minuses and the ability to do anything else that I can't otherwise do now.
There is something to be said about being in the class of "optionally employed" which is something I also worked very hard to achieve. Thanks to this community I have so much more self-realization for my situation.
Comparable situation here. VHCOL region, high exposure to r.e., very high income, but offset by much higher burn rate.
I'm over my OMY syndrome, but I'm taking the equivalent of your option #2 so would be hypocritical for me to advise you otherwise. Do I have enough already - yes absolutely. But can't bring myself to just walk away and leave what I feel I have earned on the table. It's just not in my DNA - would feel like a loss.
Gotta say though, it's really hard to suck it up and do what you gotta do when you know the exit door is right there.
You don't say your age, which could be a key factor. All in all, I think if I were you, given your positive cash flow, I'd be more much more inclined to hit option #1.