I think having a basic standard of coverage spread over everybody is important. We were all born. Just like we all went to school even though not all of us had children, yet we pay property taxes that support education for everyone’s children. Costs are spread across everyone as a way of lowering the costs for each individual.
Sure, people want to only pay for insuring the things they think they might need, for a lot of folks that means not carrying any insurance at all because they don’t need it right away and they prefer not to buy it until after something bad happens. That is not how insurance works and shouldn’t be allowed.
Offering services across state lines - very complicated as providers are local. I’m not sure health care services can scale that way at all even though it sounds good as a sound bite. Couple that with insurance being regulated per state.
I wholeheartedly agree. As a society, you can't just pick or choose which tax you want to pay just because you don't need specific social services UNLESS you want to leave our society and live along side Ernest T Bass (The Andy Griffith Show)