Wow, can I relate to this question. I've been large in bond funds since before the 2022 worst year in bond history and that's with an hourly FA's 'blessing' and design... The key move was shortening duration to 100% ST bond funds.
It does have to do with context. If there's a long term horizon the rule of bonds is you will get your principal back so long as you don't sell.
Among top 10 positions in my "moderate" PF at age 65; VCSH, SCHO SHY, SCHP, and some foreign debt and domestic Floating Rate ETFs/Funds. and recently, BILS(1-3 month duration bond) added in the last 6 months.
All of course have sustained big NAV losses. However they're also generating rising dividend income with higher interest rates.
I talk to my FA 'as needed' and believe me I've raised the issue of why to stay in these, OFTEN, to which he's replied they fulfill their respective roles in my diversified AA and given my risk tolerance, and age. That said, they most definitely haven't felt at all like 'ballast' in the last couple of years...or acted like bond funds are 'supposed' to act - they've been my biggest losers, equally or MORE than equity funds. STILL, my FA has basically said, Hold, and that the difference in say, a percentage point or two by wholesale converting them all into say, a 5% MM isn't significant enough to bother with.
Frustrating? Hell yeah. I've second guessed this almost weekly. And then there's Preferreds/PFFD. Sucking as well. I have to simply try to ignore the near term i guess. What's my choice? For bond funds? The damage is done. BUT, does anybody see another "worst year ever" for bonds? I don't, but if somebody here has better insight let me know. I'm as curious as the OP. But at a certain point, I have to say, okay, I'm pulling a dividend income that's sufficient - estimated around 87k for 2023, with a 50/50 AA in about a 2.65m PF give or take 100k in a given month... and if I mess with these bond funds, that's gonna dent that. And is it worth messing with now?
Anyway to my point, the bond funds are there for a reason and I guess the message would be that it's sorta wasted effort trying to tweak performance "at the margins" for the relatively marginal impact that might have in the 'long run.'