Hi everyone. My name is Anne, and I'm confused about dryer sheets.
I am rebuilding my life after going through a whirlwind marriage and divorce that cost me a lot of money and unhappiness. One of the things that experience made me realize about myself is that I got married because I thought I was supposed to... because I thought that's just the path that one's life is supposed to take. When I realized that that wasn't the case, I started challenging other assumptions that I'd been making about life... one of these being that you w*rk until at least 60. I stopped taking the idea of a predetermined, socially-mandated "retirement age" for granted. I found Clyatt's book and now here I am.
I turn 30 later this year and my goal is to be able to retire by my 34th birthday. This is highly dependent on my ability to stick it out in my j*b for those years. I make a very good living as a lawyer in BIGLAW and I LBMM, allowing me to save/repay debt/invest about 85% of my take-home pay. I have student loan debt which will be repaid by my 30th birthday (I can't imagine a better present to myself--I had $115M in loans when I graduated, and they've really been an emotional burden), and no other debt except my mortgage. My plan after the student loans are gone is to continue to max out my 401(k), invest my take-home pay (after expenses) in taxable mutual funds, and put bonuses towards paying off my mortgage early. If I do all of this and the mutual funds average 8%, I should have a net worth of $1MM in 2012 comprising about $600M in taxable, $170M in 401(k), a paid-off home and $20M in cash.
I realize that's a lot of "if." I really dislike my j*b, and 4 more years seems like an eternity. I am okay with the idea that I may leave my job or be let go and have to w*rk at a lower-paying (but lower-stress) job for much longer. But the idea of putting in a little more time for a lifetime of independence is very motivating, I must say.
Anyway, I'm really happy to have found these forums and look forward to becoming a dryer sheet aficionado. Would welcome any of your thoughts.
I am rebuilding my life after going through a whirlwind marriage and divorce that cost me a lot of money and unhappiness. One of the things that experience made me realize about myself is that I got married because I thought I was supposed to... because I thought that's just the path that one's life is supposed to take. When I realized that that wasn't the case, I started challenging other assumptions that I'd been making about life... one of these being that you w*rk until at least 60. I stopped taking the idea of a predetermined, socially-mandated "retirement age" for granted. I found Clyatt's book and now here I am.
I turn 30 later this year and my goal is to be able to retire by my 34th birthday. This is highly dependent on my ability to stick it out in my j*b for those years. I make a very good living as a lawyer in BIGLAW and I LBMM, allowing me to save/repay debt/invest about 85% of my take-home pay. I have student loan debt which will be repaid by my 30th birthday (I can't imagine a better present to myself--I had $115M in loans when I graduated, and they've really been an emotional burden), and no other debt except my mortgage. My plan after the student loans are gone is to continue to max out my 401(k), invest my take-home pay (after expenses) in taxable mutual funds, and put bonuses towards paying off my mortgage early. If I do all of this and the mutual funds average 8%, I should have a net worth of $1MM in 2012 comprising about $600M in taxable, $170M in 401(k), a paid-off home and $20M in cash.
I realize that's a lot of "if." I really dislike my j*b, and 4 more years seems like an eternity. I am okay with the idea that I may leave my job or be let go and have to w*rk at a lower-paying (but lower-stress) job for much longer. But the idea of putting in a little more time for a lifetime of independence is very motivating, I must say.
Anyway, I'm really happy to have found these forums and look forward to becoming a dryer sheet aficionado. Would welcome any of your thoughts.