We have a housekeeper who comes once every two weeks. We’ve only had her since October. Last week, she left us an invitation to her 15 year old twins’ quinceanera. It’s being held at a hotel and appears to be quite a production.
We were surprised to be invited to a family event when we have not known her that long and have never met her children. We already RSVP’d regrets as we have other plans. If this were a friend, we would send gifts for the kids (likely cash and a card). However I view this as a business relationship and also am concerned about setting a precedent. She is a great housekeeper and we don’t want to offend her, but I prefer not to give gifts to people I’ve never even met.
What would you do in this case?
We were surprised to be invited to a family event when we have not known her that long and have never met her children. We already RSVP’d regrets as we have other plans. If this were a friend, we would send gifts for the kids (likely cash and a card). However I view this as a business relationship and also am concerned about setting a precedent. She is a great housekeeper and we don’t want to offend her, but I prefer not to give gifts to people I’ve never even met.
What would you do in this case?