Am helping my elderly other with setting up her estate plan. Before we meet with a lawyer ($$!), my 4 siblings and I need to thrash out a solution to a sticky situation. We all get along great, and want to sort this out without messing up the relationships. I hope to hear your thoughts on what to do!
One sibling runs a business out of a building owned by our mother (previously our deceased Dad's building and place of business). The sibling pays a significantly-reduced rent to my mother (due to relationship, and due to sibling's financial problems).
The sibling uses part of the building, and sublets 3 small rooms within the building to other professionals and collects that sublet money for his own use. For the most part, all expenses to this old and always-failing building (except elec., phone, water, & sewer) are paid for by my mother, including heat, garbage, plowing, plumbing repairs, mowing, carpeting painting in/out, etc.
The sibling feels his livelihood is sustained by being in this arrangement, but the other siblings feel it's pretty dang cushy, and taking advantage of my mother's good will). Sibling feels there's no way to ever afford to buy the building from my mother (or from the rest of us once we all inherit that building). BTW, there's also a rental apartment in the building that our mother collects rent on directly, which is independent of sibling.
Due to inertia and precedence, this arrangement probably will stay as is while our mother is alive. Sibling is feeling defensive that we might want to kick him out in the street soon just to get rid of this building, which isn't at all the case. On the other hand, I think to have this arrangement go on for 20-40 years until we all die is ridiculous. It just all is so focused on this sibling tying up a large percentage of the estate.
So what can we set up in the will (or in an LLC or whatever) to activate after her passing that would let the sibling still work at the space, but not have this enormous asset (building is worth $500K now) tied up only for his benefit? Sibling thinks the net-positive cash flow to our mother (still trying to get a number on that) should be enough to keep us happy once we inherit it. Others of us think that we don't want to have this burdon of a building as an albatross over our own retirement dreams, and would like to have our lump-sum cash share in our own portfolios. Also, other siblings are scared about personal asset liability if we end up owning this together.
Thanks for your help!
QT
One sibling runs a business out of a building owned by our mother (previously our deceased Dad's building and place of business). The sibling pays a significantly-reduced rent to my mother (due to relationship, and due to sibling's financial problems).
The sibling uses part of the building, and sublets 3 small rooms within the building to other professionals and collects that sublet money for his own use. For the most part, all expenses to this old and always-failing building (except elec., phone, water, & sewer) are paid for by my mother, including heat, garbage, plowing, plumbing repairs, mowing, carpeting painting in/out, etc.
The sibling feels his livelihood is sustained by being in this arrangement, but the other siblings feel it's pretty dang cushy, and taking advantage of my mother's good will). Sibling feels there's no way to ever afford to buy the building from my mother (or from the rest of us once we all inherit that building). BTW, there's also a rental apartment in the building that our mother collects rent on directly, which is independent of sibling.
Due to inertia and precedence, this arrangement probably will stay as is while our mother is alive. Sibling is feeling defensive that we might want to kick him out in the street soon just to get rid of this building, which isn't at all the case. On the other hand, I think to have this arrangement go on for 20-40 years until we all die is ridiculous. It just all is so focused on this sibling tying up a large percentage of the estate.
So what can we set up in the will (or in an LLC or whatever) to activate after her passing that would let the sibling still work at the space, but not have this enormous asset (building is worth $500K now) tied up only for his benefit? Sibling thinks the net-positive cash flow to our mother (still trying to get a number on that) should be enough to keep us happy once we inherit it. Others of us think that we don't want to have this burdon of a building as an albatross over our own retirement dreams, and would like to have our lump-sum cash share in our own portfolios. Also, other siblings are scared about personal asset liability if we end up owning this together.
Thanks for your help!
QT