Hi guys,
I haven't posted on here in ages as I've been busy...working
I had a question regarding Holiday parties and what the protocal is with them. I lean on the side that you should go, even if you don't want to, for at least 30 minutes. Show your face, shake some hands, etc.
But this past year I couldn't make because I was helping my younger brother move back home. He just finished his first semester of nursing school, and my office is not too far away from his apartment, so it made sense for me to drive down after work and help him pack as much as possible into my car and drive him to my parents house.
So I didn't RSVP for the party. I knew beforehand. Not everyone that I work with went due to whatever reasons they had. The next day though, wow, I was grilled by some people, including a director as to why I wasn't there. They didn't find my reasoning to be satisfactory. In the words of the director it was "couldn't he find someone else to help him" and "you make him sound like a teenager."
Wow! I played it off pretty good, but it made me wonder if I was seriously in the wrong here. What are the rules with Holiday parties?
For what it's worth, I do have a high paying professional job. The party was at a swanky club downtown.
I haven't posted on here in ages as I've been busy...working
I had a question regarding Holiday parties and what the protocal is with them. I lean on the side that you should go, even if you don't want to, for at least 30 minutes. Show your face, shake some hands, etc.
But this past year I couldn't make because I was helping my younger brother move back home. He just finished his first semester of nursing school, and my office is not too far away from his apartment, so it made sense for me to drive down after work and help him pack as much as possible into my car and drive him to my parents house.
So I didn't RSVP for the party. I knew beforehand. Not everyone that I work with went due to whatever reasons they had. The next day though, wow, I was grilled by some people, including a director as to why I wasn't there. They didn't find my reasoning to be satisfactory. In the words of the director it was "couldn't he find someone else to help him" and "you make him sound like a teenager."
Wow! I played it off pretty good, but it made me wonder if I was seriously in the wrong here. What are the rules with Holiday parties?
For what it's worth, I do have a high paying professional job. The party was at a swanky club downtown.