Blue Collar Guy
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
IMHO, you're too soft hearted....
Yeah , I know. Dont let the word out, the sharks might smell blood and come after me..
IMHO, you're too soft hearted....
I've PM'ed you with the details, but in short Vinnie says I need to pay him 10 big ones by tomorrow or swim with the fishes. Large bills are OK.Yeah , I know. Dont let the word out, the sharks might smell blood and come after me..
Question: Should I lend several thousand dollars go a 60 year old sibling?
I got a call from this sibling indicating the need for a few grand because of gambling debts. I have delayed responding, but I gotta say something. I googled and found a gamblers anonymous forum which says "Never do it". Gambling is an addiction like drinking and lending money is enabling. My inclination is to refuse. DW and I have "LBYMed" all of our marriage and see no need to use thousands of dollars for my siblings self-inflicted problem. Are we selfish?
One more thing. On that forum someone addicted was suicidal. This scares the hell out of me. I don't think my sibling is in that frame of mind, but who knows. I don't want to feel remorse the rest if my life.
This is a tough decision i will have to make. It is my responsibility as DW wants me to make the call. Any inputs will be helpful.
I've PM'ed you with the details, but in short Vinnie says I need to pay him 10 big ones by tomorrow or swim with the fishes. Large bills are OK.
If all he needs is a few grand then that's not much of a debt, IMO. Especially if this is the first time he's asked. Now if he's asked before and/or needs a few grand just to pay the interest on his real gambling debt then that could be a real problem.Question: Should I lend several thousand dollars go a 60 year old sibling?
I got a call from this sibling indicating the need for a few grand because of gambling debts.
Any inputs will be helpful.
Well, thanks for all replies. I just made the call and politely refused to loan the money. It was very short conversation, in which I was thanked for calling back and told to have a good day. I assume/hope I did the right thing.