thefed
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
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- Oct 29, 2005
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And it drives me crazy!!! Every 2 weeks or so (must be his cycle) he gets into a wierd mood for no apparent reason, and we don't talk much or at all during the day. When he does talk, its with sarcasm/attitude. At the end of the day, he'll get out of the work van, grab his stuff, and walk off without even a good-bye.
The next time we see each other, he'll be normal...sorta...until I finally ask "So WTF was your problem yesterday" Sometimes its nothing, others it a complaint he isn't man enough to speak up about. ususally stems back to jealousy, IMHO. I own 2 of the 3 business we work together in...and he doesnt think he gets his fair share blah blah blah (he's OVER paid if anything). I have a home, savings, stable/sane homelife with a "wife" and kids etc....he has a semi-crazy girl who he lives with rent-free - she has 2 kids by her ex that drive him crazy etc
If I wanted to work with a moody S.O.B. I woulda kept it in the family and hired the fiance!!!
The problem is, he is my best friend...although I sometimes question " If it weren't for the $$ and financial situations, would he be around? most likely not" Regardless, Im not willing to give up my only friend because of this, but sometimes I just want to wash my hands of the entire situation and move on. BUT, like I said, i'm just about friendless (long story short: ALL of my 'friends' were acquired while I was a mid-upper level dealer of sorts, and as soon as the proverbial $h!t hit the fan, all but 2 of 100+ 'friends' I had disappeared....I basically spent my years from age 15-23 cultivating meaningless relationships)
anyway, that's my sob story. boohoo for me
The next time we see each other, he'll be normal...sorta...until I finally ask "So WTF was your problem yesterday" Sometimes its nothing, others it a complaint he isn't man enough to speak up about. ususally stems back to jealousy, IMHO. I own 2 of the 3 business we work together in...and he doesnt think he gets his fair share blah blah blah (he's OVER paid if anything). I have a home, savings, stable/sane homelife with a "wife" and kids etc....he has a semi-crazy girl who he lives with rent-free - she has 2 kids by her ex that drive him crazy etc
If I wanted to work with a moody S.O.B. I woulda kept it in the family and hired the fiance!!!
The problem is, he is my best friend...although I sometimes question " If it weren't for the $$ and financial situations, would he be around? most likely not" Regardless, Im not willing to give up my only friend because of this, but sometimes I just want to wash my hands of the entire situation and move on. BUT, like I said, i'm just about friendless (long story short: ALL of my 'friends' were acquired while I was a mid-upper level dealer of sorts, and as soon as the proverbial $h!t hit the fan, all but 2 of 100+ 'friends' I had disappeared....I basically spent my years from age 15-23 cultivating meaningless relationships)
anyway, that's my sob story. boohoo for me