chinaco
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WE have been looking for a Nursing Home for my mother. We found one that looks good (if any of them are). The facility seems nice. The $64,000 question is whether or not the staff is attentive enough.
The cost is about $170/day. That is just for the basics. Obviously other health care services will cost extra.
I took her to tour the facility the other day. The purpose was to let her feel that she is a little involved in the decision and to get to used to the idea. She is apprehensive, but I think she understands that it needs to happen. Obviously she would prefer to stay with us.
They called us with a bed available last Friday. We had to pass because we were not prepared. I have found that when one is available, they want it taken immediately so they can fill the bed. We are getting things together for the transition.
The odd thing is that after spending alot of effort to take care of her, I still feel a bit like I am letting her down by placing her there. Bottom line is that her illness is out-pacing our ability to care for her. She is beginning to have problems that are a bit beyond what we can provide and/or feel confident providing.
The cost is about $170/day. That is just for the basics. Obviously other health care services will cost extra.
I took her to tour the facility the other day. The purpose was to let her feel that she is a little involved in the decision and to get to used to the idea. She is apprehensive, but I think she understands that it needs to happen. Obviously she would prefer to stay with us.
They called us with a bed available last Friday. We had to pass because we were not prepared. I have found that when one is available, they want it taken immediately so they can fill the bed. We are getting things together for the transition.
The odd thing is that after spending alot of effort to take care of her, I still feel a bit like I am letting her down by placing her there. Bottom line is that her illness is out-pacing our ability to care for her. She is beginning to have problems that are a bit beyond what we can provide and/or feel confident providing.