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TromboneAl
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QUESTION to ALL: What are your plans if the free-spending, non-saving kids / relatives / others you care about find themselves in trouble?
Excellent question. I'm pretty sure I will tell them they are on their own. I've taken some small steps in order to to help prevent this.
SISTER 1
Double modest income with two kids, but spends like sailor. Expensive home, big vacations, tons of stuff. Always spending, remodeling, etc. I've refrained from giving her advice (other than "wow, can you really afford all this?"), but I recently bought her Brennan's book "Straight talk on Investing." I think that may help, but she probably won't need handouts anyway.
SISTER 2
Didn't save much, then married a rich person late in life.
SISTER 3
Single mom, artist type, never had a real job until three years ago. Life savings of $2,000, no house, 59 years old. New job of $47,000 per year for three years and she's saved nothing.
She came to me over Christmas vacation and asked me to help her start saving, and I started her on automatic investments to a Roth Vanguard Target Retirement fund. Note that I gave her written warnings that she should see a real financial planner, and I was just getting her started. That way I hope to avoid the pitfalls of giving investment advice.
But one month later she emailed to say that she canceled the automatic investments but will be sending off "as much as she can."
So that's a train wreck waiting to happen. A good chance that she'll come to me some day for a "loan." Who knows?