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My older brother who receives a pension from Fortune 500 after over 25 years there, full SS, and he also works parttime presently in clinical counseling. Has no kids, no expensive house repairs, no health issues, etc. just called me yesterday to borrow $2000 from me so his wife can go overseas to see her family (some kind of emergency). I am sending him $1000 instead of the full $2000 that he asked for because I don't want to set precedent that I would send whatever amount he happens to ask for. What are everybody's thoughts on this, please share candidly. I am a little disappointed at my older brother's inability to manage his own money. Back in 2001 he already had a nest egg of over $2 Mils. Now he is completely broke. Should I lend him money when my older brother asks for it? Or should I lie? Tell him that I have financial problems of my own (saving for FIRE!)? Any thoughts/advice would be greatly appreciated.