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For whatever reason, I have begun to read about how people choose their friends, consciously or sub-consciously. For example, I have known lots of people who very deliberately exclude others from their friend network based on socioeconomic class and/or political views. Clearly some people exclude others based on age, race, education, shared interests/activities and any number of other factors.
I have never used socioeconomics as a litmus test, my best friends are almost never in the same socioeconomic range as we are. It seems to be the first thing some people want to know, but I am never inclined to ask people what they do/did for a living, it just comes up organically and the later the better IMO. I never used to use political views as a litmus test either, still try not to - but let's leave that out of this thread.
So I assume there aren't any universal similarities, nor am I seeking to persuade anyone of anything. However, from a broad perspective it may be that some of us tend to associate with people like ourselves, while others of us tend to prefer associating with people unlike ourselves. I tend toward the latter.
I am just starting to explore the topic, and I thought some here might have some thought provoking views?
I was going to do a poll, but I doubt it would be as meaningful as narratives.
I have never used socioeconomics as a litmus test, my best friends are almost never in the same socioeconomic range as we are. It seems to be the first thing some people want to know, but I am never inclined to ask people what they do/did for a living, it just comes up organically and the later the better IMO. I never used to use political views as a litmus test either, still try not to - but let's leave that out of this thread.
So I assume there aren't any universal similarities, nor am I seeking to persuade anyone of anything. However, from a broad perspective it may be that some of us tend to associate with people like ourselves, while others of us tend to prefer associating with people unlike ourselves. I tend toward the latter.
I am just starting to explore the topic, and I thought some here might have some thought provoking views?
I was going to do a poll, but I doubt it would be as meaningful as narratives.
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