It may also be the result of the way the mind works. We compare one thing to another, rather than make absolute judgments. I consider where I live quite safe, and I would say that the immediate few blocks is. But all the time I am walking through really disordered street sht, stuff that has never gone bad when I was there, but does go bad not infrequently.Cuppa - this is a result of not knowing a place well enough to be sure what to expect.
It may also be the result of the way the mind works. We compare one thing to another, rather than make absolute judgments. I consider where I live quite safe, and I would say that the immediate few blocks is. But all the time I am walking through really disordered street sht, stuff that has never gone bad when I was there, but does go bad not infrequently.
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My son, who lives in a more homogeneous area of the city, avoids streets in his car than I have been walking down regularly and where from time to time someone goes down. I think I need to change that. I just naturally am drawn to street life and when something is happening I get curious. I keep expecting age to help me out, but I think I need to take a more active role in getting smarter.
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