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There have been great comments on this post but this is a big life comittment, just like getting married. You did not mention why you did not have children but I guess you were very focused on your career.
What does your girlfriend want. This is not just about you. Does she have dreams of travel and living an adult based life?
My husband and I married fairly late in life and had children when many of our friends had teenagers. We were lucky to be established in our careers and they kept us young and poor Instead of jetting off on holidays we camped with the Boy Scouts. I don't think were were ever deprived. But if you have kids you will probably stay in one place.....are you prepared to go back to work to help pay for extra expenses. The best time to work is if you don't need to.....
Having children is a wonderful experience but not for everyone. I have two wonderful girlfriends who would have made wonderful mothers but children were not in the cards for them. They have raised step children and have a lot of freedom to do many things now. It was their choice but not for me.
I hate to say this but if it gets serious between you and that girl, and she wants children, then that is probably what will happen.
There have been great comments on this post but this is a big life comittment, just like getting married. You did not mention why you did not have children but I guess you were very focused on your career.
What does your girlfriend want. This is not just about you. Does she have dreams of travel and living an adult based life?
My husband and I married fairly late in life and had children when many of our friends had teenagers. We were lucky to be established in our careers and they kept us young and poor Instead of jetting off on holidays we camped with the Boy Scouts. I don't think were were ever deprived. But if you have kids you will probably stay in one place.....are you prepared to go back to work to help pay for extra expenses. The best time to work is if you don't need to.....
Having children is a wonderful experience but not for everyone. I have two wonderful girlfriends who would have made wonderful mothers but children were not in the cards for them. They have raised step children and have a lot of freedom to do many things now. It was their choice but not for me.
I hate to say this but if it gets serious between you and that girl, and she wants children, then that is probably what will happen.