EastWest Gal
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
You nailed it Ha, concerning the talking bit. I learned my job is to listen daily to her job complaints. Being not married, I don't have the latitude a friend of mine has. He put a "only one comment about work today" rule in, so he doesn't have to listen to her go on and on.
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I long ago found that if I talk about work when I got home, I brought the worst of work home, which is just dumb. DH was a stay at home dad. He would never have found a Megacorp job, as a musician. He needed my physician's income, and his always preparing for another gig, whether a local musical theater production, a new big band arrangement, or a classical gig means my home is frequently filled with gorgeous piano music.
He's great at laundry. I do the cooking mostly. We'll keep our same chores when I retire but I 'll add to mine. And we both have our "alone time " already set.