My husband gradually retired over several years and has been completely retired for the past year or so. I have wondered what it will be like for both of us to spend so much time together after I retire. In fact, one of the reasons I have gone part time before fully retiring is that I think we need to phase into new routines where we spend more time together.
When we go on long vacations together, we love the vacations, but I also sort of like getting back to work. I think he is glad to see me go back to work too, but he never would say so. We can get a bit testy with each other if we spend too much time together. His habits are different than mine. He is slow to get moving in the morning and I am a morning person. He likes to putz around. I like to get moving.
I don't want to blow this out of proportion. We have a great relationship and I want to be married to him for the rest of my life.
Anyone face difficulties in adapting to changes in married life that retirement brings? Any suggestions?
When we go on long vacations together, we love the vacations, but I also sort of like getting back to work. I think he is glad to see me go back to work too, but he never would say so. We can get a bit testy with each other if we spend too much time together. His habits are different than mine. He is slow to get moving in the morning and I am a morning person. He likes to putz around. I like to get moving.
I don't want to blow this out of proportion. We have a great relationship and I want to be married to him for the rest of my life.
Anyone face difficulties in adapting to changes in married life that retirement brings? Any suggestions?