pb4uski
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To me this thread is somewhat of the holy grail of early retirement. Few of us want to deprive ourselves of things and experiences that would make our retirement more enjoyable and die multimillionaires as a result. OTOH, few of us want to splurge too much today and end up being a burden to our kids or to society and subsisting on cat food in our old age.
Many of us have found it hard to go from savers to spenders. You don't reverse a lifetime of frugality and accumulation easily to spend without some trepidation and worry.
I was very conservative in my first year of ER as not having income was new and scary. We are now in our third year of ER and I am more confident that we have "enough" (the investment results for the last two years has helped) so we are spending more this year (currently in Hawaii on one-leg of a six week vacation away from snow and cold).
But if investment performance were to go sideways, we can always tighten our belts a little and would be fine. If things get real bad, we can always start my pension or SS earlier so we have a number of relief valves available to us if needed.
Many of us have found it hard to go from savers to spenders. You don't reverse a lifetime of frugality and accumulation easily to spend without some trepidation and worry.
I was very conservative in my first year of ER as not having income was new and scary. We are now in our third year of ER and I am more confident that we have "enough" (the investment results for the last two years has helped) so we are spending more this year (currently in Hawaii on one-leg of a six week vacation away from snow and cold).
But if investment performance were to go sideways, we can always tighten our belts a little and would be fine. If things get real bad, we can always start my pension or SS earlier so we have a number of relief valves available to us if needed.