W2R
Moderator Emeritus
It's ironic that even when we are old ourselves, we still don't like old people.
Oddly, I have always loved being around old people, ever since I was a little girl. They seem so wise and have such interesting stories to tell.
My mother-in-law is considering such a place but it has a 10 year waiting list. She recently came up at the top and was offered a spot but she just wasn't ready to move yet. The unit was also way too large for her needs and she couldn't bring her dog.
I figure there are lots of people ahead of me that will need some sort of assisted care and either don't have or don't want to rely on relatives. I will watch what they do and perhaps some enterprising non FIREd person will make a business catering to our needs.
Dang. We had better go get on a waiting list. You are probably right about the business, but sometimes it seems to me like everybody wants to make a fortune off the baby boomers if they can.
What I'd rather avoid is the possible situation, when living alone, that nobody is checking on me at all. I could see myself becoming unable to get out of bed, and just lying there starving to death and dying of thirst, all by myself. I can think of other ways I'd rather go than that.
Another possible situation to avoid is becoming completely loonie due to Alzheimers, and wandering around town, getting lost, getting mugged, and dying in a gutter from a blow to the head from someone who only wanted my wallet.
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