Took my son ocean fishing on a party (a.k.a head) boat as kind of a final send off yesterday. I knew it was an opportunity to get in the final 'words of wisdom'. Perhaps saying wisdom is a bit presumptuous I gave him the straight skinny according to Ray
1. If your having a problem with the work, seek help. His week spot is English - writing in particular. He's me about 40 years ago - I couldn't put a sentence together. What's more I found it 'painful' (his words exactly) to write any kind of paper. I remember how I felt after my first paper was ripped up by Dr. Butterfield. What saved me is I wasn't alone. I learned what I should have learned in HS. Each sentence was like laying a brick in a wall. You lay them one at a time and make certain they are square. You also take a good look to see if the mortar lines match... In other words slow down and take your time.
2. Open up and make new friends
3. If studying is impossible in your room find a spot. For me it was library. Modern dorms have huddle rooms and lounges.
4. Open the books early and often... he's rarely, if ever really applied himself. Can he change? I talked about how his college all in cost being roughly $26,000 is relatively cheap. Some of his classmates will be blue ribbon school candidates that simply can't afford a $70k a year college. It is a great deal for a big name school.
5. Just graduating isn't enough you need good grades to land a job.
There's no doubt he can do the work... now it's out of my hands.
Did you provide or receive 'words of wisdom' that you'll share?
1. If your having a problem with the work, seek help. His week spot is English - writing in particular. He's me about 40 years ago - I couldn't put a sentence together. What's more I found it 'painful' (his words exactly) to write any kind of paper. I remember how I felt after my first paper was ripped up by Dr. Butterfield. What saved me is I wasn't alone. I learned what I should have learned in HS. Each sentence was like laying a brick in a wall. You lay them one at a time and make certain they are square. You also take a good look to see if the mortar lines match... In other words slow down and take your time.
2. Open up and make new friends
3. If studying is impossible in your room find a spot. For me it was library. Modern dorms have huddle rooms and lounges.
4. Open the books early and often... he's rarely, if ever really applied himself. Can he change? I talked about how his college all in cost being roughly $26,000 is relatively cheap. Some of his classmates will be blue ribbon school candidates that simply can't afford a $70k a year college. It is a great deal for a big name school.
5. Just graduating isn't enough you need good grades to land a job.
There's no doubt he can do the work... now it's out of my hands.
Did you provide or receive 'words of wisdom' that you'll share?
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