Thanks again! I am facing the hard truth that this can not be one of the zillions of things I "don't have time for." Or, more accurately, don't trust myself enough to do on my own. I found this thread about recommended readings in the FAQ:
http://www.early-retirement.org/forums/f28/fire-recommended-reading-list-22300.html and I will check it out.
I have never heard of Bogleheads but I will look it up too. Many thanks for the tips.
Any thoughts about a financial "planner" as opposed to an "advisor" or "money manager"? My husband and I are trying to get ourselves straight, even in terms of such things as how much life insurance we should have with our first baby on the way. We are basically nowhere right now with our finances. Both of us are currently doing the bare minimum, contributing to our company savings plans and that's about it! I am so ashamed to admit that and I know a collective shudder has just arisin from the community!