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We stopped watching the nightly news when our oldest son was 2. We quickly realized by watching it through the lens of a 2 year old how negative and violent it was. He's 24 now and we never watched the evening news again.
That said, I've always liked listening to NPR and in recent years, the BBC when I'm driving. I'd typically turn on NPR when I was making dinner and first thing in the morning. I don't regularly do that now. While I do still like and support NPR very much, I find the national news in general just so depressing these days and I often have to turn it off. A steady diet of politics and violence just wasn't making my life better and I wasn't doing anything to effect change as it was.
I still listen, just not near as much. I get news from others (for example, I didn't know until last night about Kennedy's upcoming retirement from the bench. Normally I'd know that the second it leaked out.)
I had to reconcile with myself that not listening to the news didn't mean I didn't care what happened. It just meant I wasn't going to spend my time getting depressed while I could do something about it. So now my way of doing something about it is to more actively engage in respectful dialogue with others with opposing views. I really value when someone is willing to talk with me (respectfully) about why they believe what they do and how they came to that viewpoint and are willing to try to understand my views, even if in the end neither of us changes our stance. It brings humanity back into my world. People are more alike and have way more in common than the louder differences would have us think.
That said, I've always liked listening to NPR and in recent years, the BBC when I'm driving. I'd typically turn on NPR when I was making dinner and first thing in the morning. I don't regularly do that now. While I do still like and support NPR very much, I find the national news in general just so depressing these days and I often have to turn it off. A steady diet of politics and violence just wasn't making my life better and I wasn't doing anything to effect change as it was.
I still listen, just not near as much. I get news from others (for example, I didn't know until last night about Kennedy's upcoming retirement from the bench. Normally I'd know that the second it leaked out.)
I had to reconcile with myself that not listening to the news didn't mean I didn't care what happened. It just meant I wasn't going to spend my time getting depressed while I could do something about it. So now my way of doing something about it is to more actively engage in respectful dialogue with others with opposing views. I really value when someone is willing to talk with me (respectfully) about why they believe what they do and how they came to that viewpoint and are willing to try to understand my views, even if in the end neither of us changes our stance. It brings humanity back into my world. People are more alike and have way more in common than the louder differences would have us think.