I haven't read the whole thread but I don't want to be a target for thieves or gold-diggers. I drive a modest car (2020 Honda Civic) and dress comfortably without regard to what the latest trends are. This means that most would-be thieves will assume my jewelry is fake (some of it is actually 22k gold and nothing is fake). I'm fine with that.
When I was on Match.com I posted pictures from my travels because it's a passion of mine and, not surprisingly, it DID get the expected scammers who saw pics of me in Greenland and India and figured I had money. "I'm 34 but I'm European so age doesn't matter." Guys who had made-up excuses for being outside of the US. They were easy enough to sort out and ignore and I did find a good guy who shares my passion for travel and is NOT a gold-digger.
In general, yes, I DO hide my wealth. I don't need to impress anyone and it can attract the wrong kind of people. (And you know who your true friends are if they know you have a lot and don't give a fig.)
Nobody who knows me would have a clue about my net worth. In fact they probably wouldn’t believe it judging by my lifestyle. Just didn’t know why someone would think anonymously discussing things on a website would make you a target of anything.